Have I been on your mind lately?
Would you like to treat me to something to let me know that you’re thinking of me? You are so sweet! I love to be showered with gifts of adoration, from the practical, to the sentimental, to the extravagant. Here are some ways you can show me your appreciation for my presence in the world.
Listed below are some local Bay Area delights that I savor, my Cash App link, my wishlist of material desires and necessities (email me for delivery address), sex worker advocacy organizations for you to support, and a few other thoughtful things you can do that would bring a big, bright, and appreciative smile to my lips.
If you know me, you know that I love to bake and I have a deep appreciation for quality pastries from locally owned businesses. If you’re looking to bring me a simple treat that would really delight me, I would be over the moon with confections from the following shops:
Any and all donuts from Bob’s Donuts (only Bob’s!)
Morning buns, croissants, tarts, cakes, and country loaves from Tartine
Cakes, cannolis, and pastries from Dianda’s Bakery
Coconut buns and conchas from Kings Bakery Cafe
Fresh dan tats (egg custard tarts) from Golden Gate Bakery
Pineapple buns and cakes from Sunset Bakery
Coffee crunch cake from Yasukochi’s Sweet Stop
Scones, muffins, and cookies from Arizmendi Bakery
I also enjoy savoring fresh seasonal fruits and pastured eggs from our local farmer’s markets or Rainbow Grocery; cheese from Cowgirl Creamery; and fresh flowers from the Flower Corner in the Castro District.
To mail other love notes, gifts, and care packages: Ask me by e-mail for the address you can send mail or packages to.
Send or bring me something from My Wishlist
Tribute me: Cash App: $vvai
***(For the sake of discretion, please DO NOT write a note accompanying your tip or gift. Or if you do, write "Congratulations" or "Thank you!" in card messages. Please keep your note absolutely vanilla.)
Donate funds and supplies to support these invaluable sex worker-led organizations!
BAWS (Bay Area Workers Support) - Bay Area SW’er peer-led resource organization
St. James Infirmary - Peer-led clinic in SF providing healthcare and safety services to current and former sex workers
GLITS - Mutual aid and advocacy (housing, healthcare, asylum, etc.) and leadership development for LGBTQIA+ community, centering Black trans leadership. NYC, USA, and globally.
Red Canary Song - Grassroots collective of Asian and migrant sex workers and coalition of Chinese massage parlor workers
SWOP Behind Bars - The Sex Worker Outreach Project’s support program for incarcerated sex workers
Lysistrata - Sex worker activist cooperative and emergency fund
Thank you so much for your service, graciousness, and generosity! Your offerings are deeply appreciated.